Who has Commitment issues? counselling

Who has Commitment issues?

January 5, 2015

relationship counselling to recover from an affair

One of the most useful questions I ask my couple clients is “How committed are you to this relationship on a scale of 1 to 10, where 10 is totally committed and 1 is not committed at all?” The answers I get back are most revealing for both partners and provide. Read more

Affairs: the 7 reasons why they happen

December 10, 2013

why affairs happen

Most people entering a marriage or long term relationship are doing so hoping and trusting that it will be a monogamous relationship; so the discovery of an affair is a huge betrayal of that bond and trust with devastating effects on the partner and the relationship. An affair certainly signals that. Read more

Why do Affairs Happen?

April 13, 2013

why affairs happen

Last week I mentioned that there are 7 basic reasons why affairs happen. The first three were the Door opening affair, which helps a partner leave and gives a level of safety straight into the next relationship; then the 3 legged stool, which can distract the focus from the real issues. Read more