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Do You Wonder Why You and Your Partner Are Together?
October 19, 2016
One way of understanding the driving forces behind common relationship problems such as high conflict, communication difficulties and lack of intimacy is to ask what is arguably the most fundamental question of all: ‘Why are we together?’ It seems almost too obvious to ask, doesn’t it? However it is striking how. Read more
October 12, 2016
Sometimes one or both people in a relationship struggle to come to terms with the conditions under which it was formed. Common examples are where: • trust breaches occurred • one or both people were already in a committed relationship • one or both people were in a dysfunctional state such. Read more
October 5, 2016
Successful couples counselling requires at least one person to make significant behavioural changes that their partner recognises as beneficial. However, the relationships that make the most progress in counselling are the ones in which both people make such changes. In order to understand which behavioural changes you need to make. Read more
September 28, 2016
Mark rang my office wanting an urgent appointment. He could not hide his devastation. He was absolutely stunned. His wife, Christine, of 12 years, had just dropped the bombshell that morning that she had had enough, and was leaving. He was beside himself. How had it got so bad? He could. Read more
September 21, 2016
Every night: Make time for the two of you to talk for at least half an hour. This means what happened through the day for you, how you felt about it, and what you have been thinking. Every day: Find at least one thing you appreciate about your partner and. Read more
September 14, 2016
If you have more than 3 of these happening in your relationship, be warned that your relationship is slipping away from you, so be proactive and get help now before it’s too late. 1. Are there more negative comments you make to your partner, (or your partner makes to you) than. Read more
February 3, 2016
Divorce is painful for all parties involved, but often the most affected are children. While you’re nursing your wounds, it’s important to keep in mind, children still regard their parents as role models. While it’s a painful time, it can also be a tremendous teaching opportunity for yourself and your children. With some conscious. Read more
June 15, 2015
“This is the best relationship I have ever seen in my life” says Relationship Psychologist, Julie Hart.
May 20, 2015
At our recent Hart In-house conference, David Wexler talked to us about what he called “Male Relationship Dread”. Here’s some of the kind of fears that can be stirred up in a man when his female partner wants to bring up an issue: “Nothing good is going to come out. Read more
March 2, 2015
Nicole and Michael came in a quickly scheduled appointment. They looked worn and beaten. It was only a matter of seconds before Nicole burst into tears and claimed she really did not want to leave the relationship but she felt she had no choice, it was, in her words “unbearable”.. Read more