Quiz: How to Identify if You Have a Controlling Partner counselling

Quiz: How to Identify if You Have a Controlling Partner

February 17, 2017

If you’re wondering if you have a controlling partner, we’ve created this Quiz just for you. Go through the following statements and add the total number of occasions that you answered yes to.   Your partner tells you in subtle or not so subtle ways that your perception of reality is. Read more

Are You Living With a Steamroller?

February 10, 2017

Why do some people become controlling? In order to be our unique and real self, we need access to 4 internal parts of us. They are: 1. Our feelings 2. Our sensations, like hearing, touch, sight and movement, and our preferences. 3. Our intuition 4. Our thinking The first 3 of. Read more

Are You Living With a Steamroller?

February 3, 2017

Why do some people become controlling? In order to be our unique and real self, we need access to 4 internal parts of us. They are: 1. Our feelings 2. Our sensations, like hearing, touch, sight and movement, and our preferences. 3. Our intuition 4. Our thinking The first 3 of. Read more

Does your relationship need intensive care?

March 2, 2015

  Nicole and Michael came in a quickly scheduled appointment. They looked  worn and beaten. It was only a matter of seconds before Nicole burst into tears and claimed she really did not want to leave the relationship but she felt she had no choice, it was, in her words “unbearable”.. Read more

The futile and fatal search for control

February 19, 2015

doormat in relationship counselling

  Sandra was furious. She had caught Tom checking her phone message once again. “ I just did it to reassure myself – its no big deal” Tom replied defensively. Is it a big deal? In relationships the tendency or temptation to control is one of the most toxic forces that. Read more

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